Avoiding the LJBF

Down below, Renee complains:

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Astutely, she brings up the correlation between being a side bitch (or a side nigga) and being LJBF’d by someone. In the first case, a side nigga is someone who is used for sex and possibly emotional/financial support also. Such a person is strung along by the object of his desire, while she (or he) makes great plans for the future with her (or his) first choice — who isn’t the side nigga. In the second, the situation is precisely similar, though even the sexual contact is removed.

If someone pretends to like you, and manipulates you into meeting her (or his) needs, while not even deigning to have sex with you, then you’re a chump. My prescription is to dump that bitch (or that nigga) and quit wasting your time.

A good rule of thumb is to ask yourself, in any relationship, if you are benefitting. If you’re not even gaining a tiny advantage in return for your time invested, then you should cut your losses immediately.

The correlation between the side nigga and the LJBF certainly needs some further deconstruction. Look for a more serious article in the near future.


Author: Boxer

happy bachelor, iconoclast, frankfurt school. #Alt-Left

3 thoughts on “Avoiding the LJBF”

  1. Sir
    My smart phone changed some of the words before I hit reply. I do speak English but it’s hard for me to type at times

    1. Don’t sweat it. I understood you perfectly. 🙂 It was a good observation.

      More generally, this is why I’m constantly telling men that they shouldn’t feel badly when they get rejected. It might be a minor ego bump to be told to fuck off by a prospective girlfriend, but she’s really doing you a favor. The prospect of stringing some poor chump along for free food, rides and attention is probably very tempting to most women.

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